For heaven's sake, don't show that you are desperate to get a man's attention. Being easily available sign is the worst thing that could happen to you. Lady, show your brand value. Maintain your dignity.
People will give their right arm to be with you if you exude happiness, sunshine and positive energy. At the same time, people will run away if you always crib, criticize and exude negativity.
There's a fine line between being 'gettable' and 'difficult'. Recognize it and be in between. Being on either extreme can throw them off.
Men are like hunters. They like to chase. The moment they know you are 24x7 available, they do lose interest in you. So, be cool and collected about your relationship.
Lead an interesting life as that will add layers to your personality. You can strike stimulating conversations with people around you. And having varied interests in life is definitely wonderful.
When you stepped out of one relationship, you could step out of the next one as well. The insecurity will keep him on his toes. Never ever allow him to have his cake and eat it too.
Under no circumstances, compromise on your self-respect. Remember, lovers will come and go. But if your self-esteem is affected, then it will create problems for you in the long run.
Try not to be on red alert when you are in a relationship. It's not like that if he doesn't reply to your sms, you will bombard him with 50 more smses. Just learn to chill. It's better not to make him the focal point of your life.
And if the relationship doesn't work out, leave gracefully. No need to show him how much you are pining for him. Your tears are not meant for losers. Gather strength and move on.
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